When he replied to my ad online, Steven said he was an attractive, 30-something, successful white man who was willing to explore the wild side.  When we met in person, I was more than a little bit disappointed.  Attractive was a stretch of the imagination and I told him...

Scott Clair hated his whiteness.  He wasn’t able to articulate it exactly in that way; he claimed to be coming to terms with his submissive nature and his overwhelming desire to serve the Black race.  Had he been a bit more self-aware, a bit more introspective, he...